is apology something so difficult to give?
if an apology can solve problems, even if I think that I am not a cause of a problem i would give.
Being involved in a situation, being an antagonist, but you wont give an apology in whatever circumstances. You demand it from other people because you think that there is nothing wrong with you. Seriously i still treat you as a friend, but I freaking detest the way in which you solve problems to the core. You don't want to start a conversation to find out what people feel about you and why so many people hate you suddenly. You stay narrow minded and keep thinking that there is nothing wrong with you and the fault lies on other people. The fact is that everyone thinks the same way, and it always takes any party to step in and apologise and say that lets be friends again. I did that like during wednesday. You should do your part too. Pretending that everybody is against you; pretending that everyone is at fault and you are innocent; pretending that everyone must come and apologise to you because you think that they are the causes; no, all of them wont work. Imagine how the world goes round in this way.
I'm totally not flaming you in any way or another. I'm writing on my blog because i really hope you can get rid of that childish way of thinking.
Plus, I'm not only refering to you. It takes a combined effort to solve a problem together, and if anyone does not want to take part for whatever reasons and wants things to remain the same way until someone drops their face and come to apologise to you, is seriously not the way in which you are going to solve a problem. That way you will only piss more people off, I'm serious.
Stop thinking that people are in the wrong. Remember that when you point a finger at someone 4 other fingers are pointing back at you? Try to find fault in yourself first, and when you really can't ask the person who you are having a war with. Have a friendly talk, and that's how evey fight is necessary and every negotiation is necessary to solve long term problems.
Have a friendly talk, find out how others think about you:
I apologised to Terence already.
Hubert please apologise to Terence.
Alvin please apologise to Terence.
Zheng Han please apologise to Terence.
Terence please apologise to Hubert and Alvin and Zheng Han.
If you don't want to apologise just use the magic phrase "lets not be rivals again". they work the same way for guys.
Not using dictatorship style of controling things going out of control, but can you all do it in 2 weeks? If not, there will be more implications which i totally don't want to say. But getting back to the point just solve the problem asap for the good you you and me and him and everyone around you.
ps: dont go around and start scolding. In this post I'm scolding myself too